By no means am I telling you to be a dancing monkey or a nice guy, being that guy won’t get you laid and definitely won’t impress hot girls. For those of you that’s not up on the lingo, a dancing monkey is a guy that tries way to hard and comes across as desperate..

This is DESPERATION Don't be this guy!

Typically this is the guy you see doing card tricks in club, seriously who walks around with a deck of cards???? Equally as bad is the nice guy that’s overly concerned what everyone thinks about him, has no edge and ultimately ends up in the FRIEND ONLY zone.

What are girls looking for in a guy? This is the best place to start, because once you know what girls want, you’d be able make them see you as that guy that’ll make their live better and more fun. Girls want excitement and adventure, and let me tell you, it’s easy and fun to be that guy. Start off with reading about about unusual events and activities. For example, log on to weird news and find stores about a pastor that left his wife for a prostitute, and then became her pimp. The more of the wall the story the better. This will give you an edge, something really interesting to talk about on your first date or a story to share with that super hot girl you just met on the elevator. Yes guys this is a really simple from of excitement that you can build on but takes very little effort.

Adventure or the lure of adventure is a must if you want to snag and shag the girl of your dreams. Let’s say you recently returned form the island paradise of Costa Rica with your family or friends. Use this experience when you’re chatting up that phenomenal beauty you met in line at the bank. Tell her of the belly dancers, fire eaters and crystal clear water that was filled of colorful fishes that you all most touch when you went scuba diving. If you employ the right facial animation and tone she’ll be able to live the experience almost as if she was there…She can’t help to wonder and be CURIOUS consciously or subconsciously if dating you would be the adventure and excitement she craves.

Being cheap will seriously affect your fun level in Vegas. Two single guys in a room is fine to cut cost, however if you crowd the room chances are no one is getting laid. Make a budget before you get to Vegas. Your room, food and money to party should be your three biggest priority.

Your room will cost an average of $210/night and should be comfortable enough to afford you a good nights rest. Remember, you’ll be partying hard hence your body rejuvenation will be very important and will positively or negatively affect your game.

The importance of food is a no brainer, if you’re hungry your pick up game will suffer and you’ll have very little fun. A moderate dinner including tip for one person will cost about $75.00. Meals should not be skip if for no other reason but the fact that hot sexy girls need to eat too and this activity will offer another chance to flirt etc.

Money to party is a most, that smoking hot girl you met at breakfast will also be at the bars and clubs later on. It would be painfully stupid if she invites you to join her for drinks and you don’t have the cover charge to get in..

Three-some’s are the stuff of legends and fantasies. All men that haven’t had one desire and dream of it. The ones that have grave and want more…

For you men that haven’t had your 1st, let me just worn you it’s addictive and it will change your life. After have sex with multiple girls at the same time regular one on one sex may seem WAC.

To set up a three some requires that you have at least one girl that is super open and hot. Hot because even girls that haven’t been with another girl with be more likely to experiment if the 2nd girl in the three some is sexy and hot. All girls have thought about being with anther girl but most are just shy or the opportunity just has not presented it self.

If your girlfriend is ok with having another girl join in, you need to use her as bait to wheel in your mark. Have her dress smokin hot and hit a few lounges that have high female traffic. once there show your affection by dancing, touching, laughing etc. All the while you are both checking out the herd, once you have identified a few girls this is what you do.

Walk over get her attention smile and say, “my girlfriend thinks you are hot”. She should smile or even blush, then touch her hand and say I on the other hand I like your shoes but I am not sure if I would she you are hot. [It's very important that you smile and have a very animated face, this will relax her]. Thing to note here are she is not expecting you to say  your girlfriend thinks she is hot, no way!!!! After you dropped that bomb shell on her you then pulled her back by saying you are not sure that you think she is. To that last comment she may say “really”. You follow up by saying, “you should come over and have a drink with us that way you can tell us where you got those sexy shoes”. If your delivery is right this will work 8 of 10 times. Once you have lead her over or she has come back on her own have your girlfriend do most of the talking. Before you know it they will be gal pals and you proposition her based on her comfort level. You could go easy and invite her to join you both for dinner at some other time if she seems not quite comfortable. If she is at ease, you could ask her to come back  for a drink and a dip in the hot if you have one. If she is giving off a great receptive vibe have your girl kiss her or at least lead into a sexual convo. Point is you have to play it by air, you may strike gold very easily or you may have to work at it and see what works…There are many other ways to set a three some up, this is but one.

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I have mixed feelings about this topic because if the break up was really bad and for a good reason the real question emerges, is it worth it to try again???????

We break up because of cheating, neglect and a host of other reasons. So the first step to getting her back is to be truthful to your self and answer this question. Is the situation salvageable and is it in “your” best in interest.

If the breakup was for a really good reason such as . You slept with her sister, got her pregnant and got caught in the bed you share with your girlfriend. This is a really extreme example that should never happen in real life, but the point here is break ups like these are not salvageable.

A friend of mine Paul once took a few nude pic’s of his girl friend with out her knowledge, got drunk and showed them to a guy he had just met. The guy turned out to not only know his girlfriend but had dated her for a week. [The story gets better] Paul’s girl friend had turn down this would-be suitor for Paul and needless to say this was the opportunity for the guy to strike a blow. The guy run back to Seanna the girlfriend and ruined paul’s relationship. Seanna then took a week to sort her thoughts out and came to a decision to break up with Paul. At his point it was too late for Paul to do anything. “When a woman’s mind is made up, there is just nothing you can do about it”.

Paul started doing all the wrong things such as texting her long frequent messages saying he was sorry, please for give him they should talk etc. This kind of behavior is call “phone terrorism” and will not get your girl back. In Paul’s case this was really all in vain because he was flagging a dead horse. This also ruined any chance of they ever being friends in the future. A great point here is that being kool with your ex can be a really helpful thing.

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Halloween is the sexiest most uninhibited time of year for women. This is the time of year where it’s cool to dress up like a dominatrix or Victoria Secret model with all the short see through lacy lingerie to match.

Most women have a wild side which some have no problem showing to the world, others need an occasion to let loose. Halloween provides just such an opportunity and women go all out to feed their need to be noticed.

Equally your choice of costume should be something that commands attention without making a fool of you.. Yes, I said fool. Too many times I have seen guys dressed as babies with dippers and formula bottles. This is a NO NO, because it’s just not sexy. I have seen some nice yet unique costumes that really worked for even fat dorky guys.

The most original costume I have seen was a “Facebook Page”. Huh? Yes a face book page, complete with a marker for writing on the wall and the guys head as the profile pic. This had girls and guys walking up to him asking, “are you a face book page and can I write on your wall”? Yep, this is good attention, the kind that you could easily get crazy numbers from in just one night.

Women at Halloween parties will be a lot friendlier if even for that night. It’s just something about Halloween that breaks the ice and causes women to give even the clumsiest guys a chance to say a few words. So make this Halloween the 1st in a long string of great hook ups in your life.

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Having success with women in bars and clubs is harder than meeting women in your every day life. Women in bars have more of a defense going because they are expecting guys to hit on them.

Over the years I have found that I met a better class of women in the supermarket then I did at the bars. Meeting a woman in this no pressure environment is super easy and will not cost you a cover or a two drink minimum.

The dialog you use with girls in the streets is more natural than the one you use in the clubs. For example if you’re in the gym and you see a pretty girl you could say, “hey, how many more sets you have lift”? Once she answers then you go onto something like. “What area of your body do you work more”? This is a easy free flowing conversation that you can quickly turn playful and find cleaver ways to touch her. Best of all she doesn’t feel under attack which makes her more open to your advances.

On an emotional level many women that frequent clubs and bars have a chip on there shoulders and quite frankly have a lot of crazy going on.

Hands down I think the sexiest women are to be found on the train, gas station, restaurants etc. However the really hottttt ones don’t come along every day so when you’re walking to the corner store and you see a perfect 10 walking the opposite direction have you’re opener ready.

The dictionary discribes flirting as [behaving as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions]. Flirting can also be described as teasing or foreplay.

Your success with flirting will be greatly increased if you practised every chance you get. So that random girl in the check out line  at the seven eleven that you have no intensions of dating is perfect to start with. Say something like, “excuse me, do you know what time it is”? This is a very simple question but has the potential of sparking a conversation that you can lead where ever you want.

If you’re in the elevator and a girl presses the button for a higher floor than yours also gives you a very simple opener. Try asking, “What goes on on that floor, I have never been up there”. Your aim is just to get her talking and I find asking a NORMAL question at first is best. Women hate corny played out pick up lines and if you make a bad first impression it’s most often impossible to recover form it. So simple openers will get her attention and then you can move into your real game.

Flirting with women that you are not really interested in will build your knowledge of what works without the pressure of rejection. With this fear gone you’re now free to experiment with a wide range of topics, facial expressions, openers and more . Just remember once you have sorted through your encounters and figured what works your next step is to flirt with hot sexy girls. Yep the same openers that worked on the 3oo lb girl with zits will work on the hot girls as will. Never get scared and change a winning system because the girl is hot. Your game is tight and will work on most girls, just believe in yourself and above all have fun.

Picking up girls in the street is really the easiest pick up of them all, except for when a friend literally hands you a girl and says take her she is your’s.

LoL right ? Believe it or not it has happen to me where I meet a girl in the streets and gave her girlfriend to my brother.

Here is how that happened :-

While driving through a New York neighborhood I saw this smokin hot girl walking with earphones on. This is something that most girls do to discourage random boring guys for trying to talk to them. I am sure some of you have seen this and thought there was no way to start a conversation with out being rude. Well there are many ways to break through, and it’s simpler than you think. (back to the story) I parked next to the curb just before the intersection and quick reached into the glove box for my road map. Unfolding the map as I got out the car I then placed it on the hood and scratched my head. As she got close I turned to her gestured with my hand for her to stop and said, “I seem to be lost”. “Can you tell me where Broadway is”?

Broadway was the street that ran parallel to the one we where on and I know this, but the object was to get her to drop her defences so I could open her. Sure enough she stopped, pulled the earphones from her ears and said. “You’re one block away, it’s the next one over”. I was surprised that she even heard me over the music of her ipod. The thing to note here is most women are very mind full of there surrounding and who is around them. So from the moment I slowed down and stopped she was focused on me. Plus she was not really listening to anything as she later told me, it was just her way of not being hit on by lame dudes.

(back to the story) Before she could even finish her response I smiled, touched her hand, looked her in the face and said. “I know where it is I just wanted to stop and talk with you for a minute”. You have this glow and energy about u and I just had to meet you”. Eight of ten girls will give you a GENUINE smile at this point. Then I said, “there is a starbucks on Broadway lets grab a coffee and talk before my meeting”. “This will give me a chance to appease for my deception and everyone likes something from starbucks right”? She smiled again and said, “I would, but I was on my way to meet my girlfriend”. At this point it could go either way. She could be giving me the brush off or her friend really is waiting on her. The safe move would have been to take her # and try to set something up for later but I was not in the mood to play it safe. So I said, “thats great, invite her along and we can have a bite and a laugh or two”. While I was saying all this I threw the map in the car locked the doors and started to way with her… Note most girls would have felt weird getting into my car being that we just meet. Walking with her was a much friendlier posture for me to take. “She smiled again and said, “my, you’re very persistent.” Too that I said, “I am a natural leader while pointing to myself, and I know a good thing when I see it. Then I pointed to her, smiled and tilled my head very slightly.

We walked to the Starbucks by which time I found out her name and that she had never been scuba diving but has always wanted to. Her friend meet us a few minutes later and we all had a great 20 minute conversation which I cut short by saying that it was almost time for my meeting. This gave me even more value because I didn’t wear out my welcome. Instead I left them wanting more of my company and curious about me.

Later that day I got a text from her asking me if I had a brother or friend for her  friend. BINGO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This was a very good sign and I made the most of it. Later that night I picked up both girls for drinks by a very happening spot that they had never been to.

Fast forward to the end, we ended up at my place for a night cap . My brother joined us soon after and it was then that I introduced/ handed him Nichol who was the friend of the girl I had meet earlier. The night drag on to morning and we where all left satisfied…:-)

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Cooking for your date/spouse is an intimate display of affection with many benefits.

Being able to fix a tasty meal form start to finish has a very profound impact, especially if your date gets involved or watches.

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