It’s really not difficult to date and sleep with a stripper or should I say a dancer. The “TRICK” is to draw a clear line between you and the other patrons, which for the most part will be quite easy once you know the striper rules and how the game is played.
Rule #1
Don’t try to buy their attention even if you have to money to do so. You need to set your self apart from all the other guys that pelt $$$$ at these girls. Buying her a drink is ok as long as it’s not the 1st thing out of your mouth. Dancers are there to make money and there is nothing wrong with that. You and the other hand are of a different bread and once she see this you will get free, what so many guy waste money trying to get.
Rule # 2
Be Charismatic and playful in your approach, this will set the pace for you being seen as more than just another customer.
There is no need to seek these girls out, the nature of their job forces them to come to you. Striking up a conversation is easy they will most often start it off for you. At this point don’t be typical by racing to buy her a drink and staring at her ass or tits. Instead engage her in a quick conversation that paints you as different from the pack. Say something like……
The way you move your body reminds me of a girl that played one of the lead roles in Zumanity. Have you ever seen the performance? To this she will more than likely say no or or ask where is that playing? “BooM” you have got her out of her eliment and intrested in what you have to say and not want you can give her…
You then do a little showboating by say, ” I saw it in Las Vegas recently when me and some friends went for a impromptu trip, it was awesome!!! Have you ever been to Las Vagus ?
She could have said that she had seen it, in which case you would still have tons to talk about. Remember tho that she is still on the clock so don’t try to keep her there with you all night. Instead when you think you have made an imperssion on her encourage her to to mingle. You can segway to that by saying i will be here for about an hour go make that money and come back so I can say by to you before I go to this party in the city…
Yes you want to get an hotel room with her and get busy but if you act like the eager beaver has in all you talk about is sex sex sex. you will be just like every other guy in the joint. So be cool and pick your moment.
Rule # 3
Make friends with every one that works there, the bartender, owner, coat check, doorman etc. For example you could engage the shot-girl selling the jello shots in a conversation that goes something like this..”Those look great and I have never tried one here but how do they taste”? If she is good at her job she will not give you a one word answer like, “yes”. She will instead say something like she has had one her self and it was refreshing. To this you say something like. “Wow, you’re allowed to drink on the job, nice who do I speak to about getting a job here”. She will laugh/smile and you have just made a friend.
Repeat this with the door-man, bouncer etc making sure to exchange names that way the next time you can greet them by name and pretty soon they will all know yours. this will be gold for you as you are now no longer just a customer but instead a liked player……..
